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  • LC
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:11PM

      Just wanna ask for some opinions...

      Would u prefer to date someone thru the phone directly??

      Or by SMS??

  • Ferret
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  • fairlady_xoxo
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:30PM

      More sincere to call than sms...sms can be typed by any tom, dick or harry...

      Edited by fairlady_xoxo 23 Jun `08, 3:35PM
  • mistyblue
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  • nehpyh
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:36PM

      Wah....all the psychoanalysis and reverse engineering trying to decipher the opposite gender!!!

       

      If you ask me, use the method you are most 'skillful' in!

       

      Sikali we say use phone and you happen to be a stutter how?!!!

       

      Or you fat thumb typed in some wrong embarrassing spello and your fate is sealed! By the time you tried to remedy by calling, you started stuttering....THAT'S IT!

       

      Bo pi bo pi!

  • mistyblue
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  • Ferret
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:42PM
      Originally posted by mistyblue:

      Personal experience?

      ahahahhahahaha its much harder to reject on the phone mahz. if u sms, the person got time to think riaos, may start to recollect what a creep you are and then ..... !!!! teeth.png 

       

       

      actually, phone is cos even if got rejected still can ask again and also see what excuse was given lah. if very obvious then zi dong a bit mahz.

  • LC
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:43PM

      Hmm.. i agree with nehpyh..

      A common method might not suit everyone..

      Probably will just go with the most favouritable method..

      Even though i used to date my girl thru smses.. :P

  • nehpyh
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:45PM

      Deh....sincerity la....prish...send via pigeon also count....!!! Just make sure the bird shit land on the right target!

       

      All the best, yam seng!

  • Go
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:48PM

      I prefer to date thru sms. Though, you are giving time for the other party to reply but you also have time to react.

       

  • mistyblue
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:53PM
      Originally posted by Ferret:

      ahahahhahahaha its much harder to reject on the phone mahz. if u sms, the person got time to think riaos, may start to recollect what a creep you are and then ..... !!!! teeth.png 

       

       

      actually, phone is cos even if got rejected still can ask again and also see what excuse was given lah. if very obvious then zi dong a bit mahz.

       

      Wah you expert sia.... :-P

      true. On phone is harder to reject but she might SMS later to reject leh. Nowadays ger got lot of pattern one... ;-)

  • LC
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:54PM

      Sometimes i think its up to individual preference right??

      Now that everything is so advanced & SMS is such a common thing so actually dating thru SMS is also something not very wierd too..

      If the other party is comfortable/interested in going out with u then i think it doesnt matter u call or sms to ask for a date..

      Am i right??

  • newcomer
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:56PM

      sms lah. phone calls leave it until u n her are more comfortable wif each other. sms she reject sua lor, move on.

       

      if she's interested in going out wif u do you think she'd would reject if you're smsing, emailing, calling, etc?

      Edited by newcomer 23 Jun `08, 3:56PM
  • Go
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    • 23 Jun `08, 3:59PM

      ya lor. if it is meant to be rejected, sms or phone will still get the same result.

      if it is meant to fail, black or blue ball point pen will still get the same result.

       

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  • mistyblue
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    • 23 Jun `08, 4:04PM

      there's always a 1st time. My first time i ask a guy out, I was rejected. So I waited and ask aagin, rejected again loh. So after that, never asked again. 

  • Go
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    • 23 Jun `08, 4:08PM
      Originally posted by mistyblue:

      there's always a 1st time. My first time i ask a guy out, I was rejected. So I waited and ask aagin, rejected again loh. So after that, never asked again. 


      omg.png how do guys reject girls? same as girls reject guys?

  • LC
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    • 23 Jun `08, 4:09PM

      Oh mistyblue..

      That's already a very daring move..

      U took the initiative to date a guy..

  • newcomer
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  • Go
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    • 23 Jun `08, 4:12PM
      Originally posted by newcomer:

      just say i'll let u know. then in the end nv let her know lor.


      this is so subtile - leaving a "yes", "no" answer

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