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recently i got to know a north indian guy from mauritious. shold i try to ask him out? i dunno much about how his culture is like, but he is cute and speaks french. will it be too sl__y if i ask him out? not sure if he is attached.. but he wears a ring on his index finger..
Edited by wallie 30 Jun `08, 10:37PM
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
why not? just keep to public places and everything should be fine.. common sense is impt..
EDITED: did u mean "slutty"? aiyo.. now what era liao sia.. come out for a drink and chill and make friend nia.. what u thinking..?
yup i meant "slutty". I have some reservations because society does not view girls who ask out guys from another race very well right?
does wearing a ring on the index finger mean anything?
ps i've never asked a guy out before...only they ask me.. but first time i feel like i want to do something different..
Edited by wallie 30 Jun `08, 10:46PM
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aiyo.. u think too much.. u meet a guy online, den want to meet up, if u dun feel comfortable one-to-one outing, bring a friend lo.. safer oso.. its just a meet up mah.. if it's good, move from there, if not, go home, on comp, delete contact, find another one..
and if at this point of 'making friends' stage u are already concerned about what others think of u together with guys from other races, den seriously forget about the whole idea and stick to guys of ur own race..
Edited by purpledragon84 30 Jun `08, 10:51PM
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the thing is i want to try dating guys from other races. all my life only dated guys my own race, find it quite boring.. and yet don't know how to attract guys from another race.. i prefer indian or caucasian..if i were to date outside of my own
where did you get the idea i know him online? i know this guy from work. that's why dilemma, not sure if it is inappropriate.. but what to do, mysocial cirle is only friends from school and people from work..
Edited by wallie 30 Jun `08, 10:55PM
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oh my bad.. coz online forum.. haha..
anw.. the same thing applies.. just go out for a drink, and bring a friend along.. say two girls very sian, ask him join and have a chat.. then ok liao mah..
and again, same thing applies.. if u are going to care abt how others look at u and who u go out with, at this point in time, den this relationship(if u are going to go into one) is bound to fail..
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
oh my bad.. coz online forum.. haha..
anw.. the same thing applies.. just go out for a drink, and bring a friend along.. say two girls very sian, ask him join and have a chat.. then ok liao mah..
and again, same thing applies.. if u are going to care abt how others look at u and who u go out with, at this point in time, den this relationship(if u are going to go into one) is bound to fail..
thank you for your encouragement.. but do you think it is superficial to want to date someone partly because they are different race?
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Originally posted by wallie:
thank you for your encouragement.. but do you think it is superficial to want to date someone partly because they are different race?
eh.. i wun say it's superficial.. why not look at it as wanting to learn more about guys of other races? maybe they may have different perspectives and views from guys of ur race that u normally date?
and he's from mauritius right? a new culture too, compared to singapore guys who may not have seen many places..
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Why not try to understand his marital status and culture more before u date him? Afterall u are working in the same place. Plus just a pcs of advice, check and make sure that he and his family dun have the caste system mindset, most singaporean indian dun believe in this anymore, but most India indian must practice this, and if he or his family must have this mindset then honestly u can forget abt this relationship to workout.
Nothing wrong with dating plp for other races, but yes it is superficial if u want to date them becos they are different race? No, if u find that the person that suit u happen to be from diff. races.
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Dun let our gals image down ya, the law of love is to let the guy make the first move, not gal!!!! Dun be so desparate, stay cool. If the guy like you, he sure to date you out. I also got indian guys dated me out, but most are shop owner's son in serangoon from both north and south indian, even tho i like Mustafa's grandson alot, very handsome white color indian, i still hold back my urge and wait for his call.
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